Hide and don't seek

I've heard it said that people use religion as a crutch. I totally agree with that but I also think people sometimes use it as a wall to hide behind so they don't have to deal with stuff . Instead of taking action and trying to fix the problem, they sit back and claim they are "praying about it ". I'm not knocking prayer but in the meantime, you need to use the brains and ability God gave you to try to figure things out. Pray to God but row for the shore. I know people who literally can't (or rather won't)  make any decision, large or small, without praying or running to their almighty pastor for advice;from buying a house to choosing a paint color for their bathroom and everything in between, they won't pull the trigger before seeking God's will. I know I sound awful but I get very annoyed by this mindset especially when it comes to hiding behind that wall instead of taking responsibility for your actions. I don't believe that God intended for us to use Him as an excuse to avoid responsibility.  To me, that's cowardly. Maybe I am wrong about this and I probably am but it infuriates me when people would rather sit back and "pray " while everything is falling apart around them. At some point, you have to piss or get off the pot.